Five tips to seduce Japanese women

I know the headline is cheeky but there is a culture angle here to understanding Japanese women that might well be useful to a lot of people interested in this subject matter. A lot of this subject matter was new to me also and it was with more than a considerable pleasure that I came across this lovely and informative website mynippon. I'll try and illustrate some of the major points here.

1. Culturally, Japanese women, in most cases, are extremely polite. So if they happen to accept your offer of a drink in a bar, you can put that to politeness and nothing else. Watch out for those cues.

2. Never try to 'come on' to a Japanese woman. The best way to "win" her is to position yourself in such a way so as to put the ball in her court, so to say and let her take the process forward. So position yourself as a serious student of Japanese language/music/food/art or anything else that she is interested in. While you show your genuine interest in her, give her time also.

3. Be generous with your praises. That is something the Japanese society in general and the ladies in particular are not used to. If you praise her beauty and you are a foreigner, then you are well on the road to charming her. 

4. Japanese women experience a lot of freedom when dealing with a non-Japanese and are more at ease, so to say. This is her chance to show her wild side. Easier said than done but use that to your advantage.Go nuts!

5. Help those lovely Japanese ladies along the way. Understand their indirect signals of interest. Japanese women do not show any direct signals but their indirect ones are pretty easy to identify.Some of them are - a dinner date on a weekend, a date closer to your residence, a date in a less crowded area like a park or lake, suggestive dress on a date, late night phone-calls, etc.

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[Beautiful Asian girl]

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